All in Victoria Says

The Power of You

I’ve always found it terribly unfortunate that so many people allow others to define their self-worth. If you think about it, it is kind of insane to defer to others when it comes to determining how much value we have. Maybe you didn’t get into your dream school and that's always haunted you. Perhaps, you’ve been overlooked for a promotion time and time again and you’re at your wit’s end. The examples can be endless, but the sentiment remains: other people dictating what you are or are not worthy of.

True Friendship: An Afternoon In

We often think we have to make extravagant plans to have fun with our friends.  When in reality, we should know someone is not our friend if they always require such things. True friends don't need some well thought out plan every time you hang out. True friends can just "be" with one another.

Veggie Pizza Date Night In: Relationships are Successful When You're Best Friends

I dedicate this post to my best friend. I'm so lucky to have you and call you mine. No more froggies to kiss, I found my prince. You make me laugh until I cry on a regular basis and put up with all my very particular preferences and quirks. You have a quiet strength about you that makes you wise beyond your years and your tranquil nature balances out my neuroticism. All I can say is: Thank you, best friend.

A Leg to Stand On

Just like I examine people’s shoes, I examine people's personalities in a similar fashion... which is to say I investigate their foundation. When I first meet a person, I get to know their core values which are the foundation that informs their belief system.

The Ghost I Call Empathy

I can honestly say I pride myself on being empathetic. I feel other people’s pain as if it were my own. It’s not because I think I’m so perfect, it’s simply because I am able to recognize my privilege. The older I get, the more I feel like it’s my duty to help other women. I sincerely feel like it’s my job to understand the different issues women face.